Temperaments are the inbuilt characters of a person that cannot be
changed, but can be controlled by the Holy Spirit. In marriage, couples
need to study the temperaments of each other, for that is the only way
they can cope during trying periods. In temperament, we have weaknesses
and strengths.
Weaknesses are that characters that when you
display make your spouse wonder whether you are a christian.While
strengths are your good characters. Today you are going to learn about
the weaknesses and strengths of a sanguine husband.
I. The Strengths of A Sanguine Husband.
A
sanguine husband believes in looking good all the time. He is
emotionally warm, friendly and sympathetic to the tears of his
friends.He does not like sad or gloomy moments. Life to him is fun, so
he loves staying out doors with friends, eating and drinking.
When
offended, he quickly tells you what you did to him was wrong. And
immediately he pours out his mind that ends all the quarrels. He has no
time for grudges. He is expressive in public- in storytelling
conversations, exaggerations and actions. Because he is a gifted orator,
everybody likes hearing him speak. In fact, he is good in talking
people into joining or buying his products. If filled with the Holy
Spirit, and has a call, he will be a great evangelist.
He loves his wife and children dearly, and can do anything to make them happy.
II. The Weakness of A Sanguine Husband
The
sanguine husband has the following weaknesses: He lacks discipline in
all he does. He hardly concentrates on his studies, prayers, and church
activities.He talks more than women. He gossips, and backbites. He
speaks people out of their duty posts.
He exaggerates whenever he
is speaking, just to motivate his listeners to believe his story. He is
hot tempered. He is easily irritated whenever people want to take him
for granted.
He is prone to unfaithfulness- to time, appointments
and promises. It’s so because he is weak-willed when faced with great
challenges. (Jon.21:3)
He spends whatever he earns anyhow.
He is unconstrained and usually overspends. Spirituality. He is carnal
and fleshly. Lives women, food and wine.(Rom.8:6-7)
He is untidy- throwing things about. His house is always not swept, cloths and plates, unwashed etc.
He
loses interest easily. He may enter and leave a relationship easily. He
can be unfaithful to his wife by following other women who are more
attractive, cheerful and sexually active than his wife.(2 Sam.11:2-5)
As
a sanguine husband, you need the infilling of the Holy Spirit to bring
out the best in your temperaments. There is no excuse to the expression
of your weaknesses. God expects you to overcome your weaknesses (Rom.8:11, 13)
Tuesday, January 19, 2016
Temperaments And Marriage -Sanguine
Temperament, in simple terms, is the inborn part of man that
determines how he reacts to people, places and things. We have four
temperaments (Sanguine, Choleric, Melancholic and Phlegmatic). Our study today shall be dealing on the Weaknesses and strengths of a sanguine wife.
I. The Strengths of A Sanguine Wife.
She is adorable and popular. Always being elected as a spoke person in any occasion. She is the easiest personality to spot in a crowd- she talks a great deal, usually laughs loudly, and has many gestures, like waving her arms in the air. She can talk for hours on a topic she has little or not much information about.
She is good at networking/marketing- she knows virtually everyone. She is a good motivator of people, ready to convince people to do things they wouldn’t normally do on their own. She doesn’t hold grudges when her feelings are hurt. Always ready to apologize when she does something wrong.
She likes throwing parties and attending them. At the party all actions revolves around her. She accepts the fact that everybody has faults and makes mistake. She has no desire to judge others and this attitude makes her popular.
She lives by principle of acceptance- her slogan is ‘‘live and let live’’. She doesn’t spend her time thinking about what is wrong with people she meets. She rather focuses on what is right about people and about life. She is creative. She is a creative dresser and likes new hairstyles and colours. Her creativity may extend to baking, decoration, and entertaining.
she has a seemingly childlike faith and trust in human beings- believing the best about her husband and others She loves her husband dearly, and can do anything to make him happy. She is very good at bed. In fact her husband must be ready to satisfy her at all times.
II. The Weakness of A Sanguine Wife.
A sanguine wife is talkative. She often wonders why everyone else is quiet all the time. Because she doesn’t pay attention to details she may say the wrong things and embarrass those close to her. She tends to exaggerate for effect and therefore is seen as not telling the truth.
Permissive. She may allow her children to behave anyhow and may not take danger signs in marriage and life in general seriously.She is forgetful and unreliable. She does not remember appointments and schedules. Also often get excited about role but is not around for the implementations.
She fusses and complains when she has to work a little. She doesn’t like to work. She loves fun all through.A messy Housekeeper. She never seems to know where anything is because of her unsteadiness.
Happiness in marriage is greatly dependent on how well each spouse understands their partner's temperament and how willing they are to meet their partner's temperament needs.
I. The Strengths of A Sanguine Wife.
She is adorable and popular. Always being elected as a spoke person in any occasion. She is the easiest personality to spot in a crowd- she talks a great deal, usually laughs loudly, and has many gestures, like waving her arms in the air. She can talk for hours on a topic she has little or not much information about.
She is good at networking/marketing- she knows virtually everyone. She is a good motivator of people, ready to convince people to do things they wouldn’t normally do on their own. She doesn’t hold grudges when her feelings are hurt. Always ready to apologize when she does something wrong.
She likes throwing parties and attending them. At the party all actions revolves around her. She accepts the fact that everybody has faults and makes mistake. She has no desire to judge others and this attitude makes her popular.
She lives by principle of acceptance- her slogan is ‘‘live and let live’’. She doesn’t spend her time thinking about what is wrong with people she meets. She rather focuses on what is right about people and about life. She is creative. She is a creative dresser and likes new hairstyles and colours. Her creativity may extend to baking, decoration, and entertaining.
she has a seemingly childlike faith and trust in human beings- believing the best about her husband and others She loves her husband dearly, and can do anything to make him happy. She is very good at bed. In fact her husband must be ready to satisfy her at all times.
II. The Weakness of A Sanguine Wife.
A sanguine wife is talkative. She often wonders why everyone else is quiet all the time. Because she doesn’t pay attention to details she may say the wrong things and embarrass those close to her. She tends to exaggerate for effect and therefore is seen as not telling the truth.
Permissive. She may allow her children to behave anyhow and may not take danger signs in marriage and life in general seriously.She is forgetful and unreliable. She does not remember appointments and schedules. Also often get excited about role but is not around for the implementations.
She fusses and complains when she has to work a little. She doesn’t like to work. She loves fun all through.A messy Housekeeper. She never seems to know where anything is because of her unsteadiness.
Happiness in marriage is greatly dependent on how well each spouse understands their partner's temperament and how willing they are to meet their partner's temperament needs.
What To Do When Your Spouse Is Sick
The only time you need to show love to your spouse is during
sickness. The possibility for your relationship to change with an
illness is there. To some couples, during illness Is the time to stay
late at night, to only come back when the sick one has almost being
exhausted, fainted, because of hunger. But sure I got a lot of
information for you, on what to do to keep the love flowing.
Have a Positive Attitude About The Sickness
See in your mind's eye someone telling you that your spouse has 90 percent chance of getting better. Does that sound good? Of course it does. It's always worthwhile to think positively. In fact, experts in psychology say that ‘a positive attitude enhances your immune system and will actually increase your chances of a full recovery’
so when you have positive mindset, toward your sick spouse it will create positive reaction. your sick spouse will have faith that soon the sickness will be over.
The time of illness is the time two of you have to keep the channels of communication open more than ever. Remember to do the following:
Let you partner know you want to be alone. Discuss this to your spouse kindly. The reason for this information is to avoid disturbance when you want to be alone.
Try your best to always give each other your full attention. A sick person needs attention more than anything, so provide time for that.
If you are feeling scared and fearful as a result of your spouse’s condition, share it with your spouse. As much as you might want to push him or her away, try as hard as you can to draw him or her closer to you.
Give your spouse the chance to support you. Don’t see it that his/her presence is a disturbance. Physical contact is healing and creates closeness. Hug each other often.
Love your spouse. During this critical time, you need to show love to your spouse; the reason is that it makes the relationship strong. Instead of trying to regret or complain, why not say “I love you”
Have fun Together.
Since you might not be able to go to a movie or out to dinner or to some important places of fun, yet you can still have fun together by setting out time to be alone at home without any interruptions. There are many things that you can do to have fun, even if you don't have much energy. Here are some things to try:
Tell story that will build hope. The best is bible stories that talk about those that put their face in God and how they received their healing.
Draw some colorful pictures together.
Watch an interesting movie together
Read a book to each other.
By the time you follow these principles, your sick spouse will not only appreciate you, but will be relieved of some unwanted tension whether you will abandon the house and run away.
Have a Positive Attitude About The Sickness
See in your mind's eye someone telling you that your spouse has 90 percent chance of getting better. Does that sound good? Of course it does. It's always worthwhile to think positively. In fact, experts in psychology say that ‘a positive attitude enhances your immune system and will actually increase your chances of a full recovery’
so when you have positive mindset, toward your sick spouse it will create positive reaction. your sick spouse will have faith that soon the sickness will be over.
The time of illness is the time two of you have to keep the channels of communication open more than ever. Remember to do the following:
Let you partner know you want to be alone. Discuss this to your spouse kindly. The reason for this information is to avoid disturbance when you want to be alone.
Try your best to always give each other your full attention. A sick person needs attention more than anything, so provide time for that.
If you are feeling scared and fearful as a result of your spouse’s condition, share it with your spouse. As much as you might want to push him or her away, try as hard as you can to draw him or her closer to you.
Give your spouse the chance to support you. Don’t see it that his/her presence is a disturbance. Physical contact is healing and creates closeness. Hug each other often.
Love your spouse. During this critical time, you need to show love to your spouse; the reason is that it makes the relationship strong. Instead of trying to regret or complain, why not say “I love you”
Have fun Together.
Since you might not be able to go to a movie or out to dinner or to some important places of fun, yet you can still have fun together by setting out time to be alone at home without any interruptions. There are many things that you can do to have fun, even if you don't have much energy. Here are some things to try:
Tell story that will build hope. The best is bible stories that talk about those that put their face in God and how they received their healing.
Draw some colorful pictures together.
Watch an interesting movie together
Read a book to each other.
By the time you follow these principles, your sick spouse will not only appreciate you, but will be relieved of some unwanted tension whether you will abandon the house and run away.
How To Fix Relationship Problems Before It Is Too Late
Keeping your relationship on an even keel
takes work and if you think you need help with relationship problems you
and your partner have to resolve the issues together.Don't leave it too
late to sort out a problem because the longer it goes on, the more
difficult they become to sort out.
A relationship means having a connection and a partnership with somebody. Most relationships begin well, full of love and devotion. However, over time sometimes the love and devotion can fade and you're left confused. You think that you did nothing wrong and don't take any responsibility. Or, you may blame yourself totally and recognize that you need relationship help.
It's never too late to salvage a relationship if both parties are willing to work together as a team. Here are 5 steps to follow that help with relationship problems.
1. Commitment.
Both you and your partner must be committed to working on ways to repair your relationship. Commitment can sound very scary and many people run from the thought of it. But, if your relationship is to succeed, you both must be committed to the same values and goals.
2. Acknowledge the Problem.
You must recognize why you need relationship help and get the problems out in the open. Usually, both are to blame for not fulfilling each other's needs. You might discover you never knew what those needs were because you fail to share. Sharing is bonding. In order to share you must communicate and learn about each other's feelings and needs. Both of you could be hurting and the other not know.
3. Neither Is To Blame.
When you need relationship help, neither of you may be to blame. This is why communication and sharing are so important. As you talk about your feelings be rational, reasonable and calm. No one wins an argument or a discussion by getting angry. You are two different people with different views and perspectives. Likely there is no right or wrong here, just differences. Being different doesn't mean you cannot help with relationship problems. The differences could be what brought you together in the first place.
4. Respect The Differences.
The basic needs of a relationship are to respect those differences and find mutual understanding. Show an interest in your partner's hobbies and interests and find some time to get involved so you can experience it together. You may discover that you enjoy it and want to do it again.
5. What Is Right And What Is Wrong?
Talking about what is right as well as what is wrong is part of the approach to help with relationship problems. Let go of resentment and guilt over emotional baggage from the past. If your partner has done something that you think you cannot forgive, just know someone else can and will carry on where you let the good thing go. Take your time but agree to forgive and forget over time.
A relationship means having a connection and a partnership with somebody. Most relationships begin well, full of love and devotion. However, over time sometimes the love and devotion can fade and you're left confused. You think that you did nothing wrong and don't take any responsibility. Or, you may blame yourself totally and recognize that you need relationship help.
It's never too late to salvage a relationship if both parties are willing to work together as a team. Here are 5 steps to follow that help with relationship problems.
1. Commitment.
Both you and your partner must be committed to working on ways to repair your relationship. Commitment can sound very scary and many people run from the thought of it. But, if your relationship is to succeed, you both must be committed to the same values and goals.
2. Acknowledge the Problem.
You must recognize why you need relationship help and get the problems out in the open. Usually, both are to blame for not fulfilling each other's needs. You might discover you never knew what those needs were because you fail to share. Sharing is bonding. In order to share you must communicate and learn about each other's feelings and needs. Both of you could be hurting and the other not know.
3. Neither Is To Blame.
When you need relationship help, neither of you may be to blame. This is why communication and sharing are so important. As you talk about your feelings be rational, reasonable and calm. No one wins an argument or a discussion by getting angry. You are two different people with different views and perspectives. Likely there is no right or wrong here, just differences. Being different doesn't mean you cannot help with relationship problems. The differences could be what brought you together in the first place.
4. Respect The Differences.
The basic needs of a relationship are to respect those differences and find mutual understanding. Show an interest in your partner's hobbies and interests and find some time to get involved so you can experience it together. You may discover that you enjoy it and want to do it again.
5. What Is Right And What Is Wrong?
Talking about what is right as well as what is wrong is part of the approach to help with relationship problems. Let go of resentment and guilt over emotional baggage from the past. If your partner has done something that you think you cannot forgive, just know someone else can and will carry on where you let the good thing go. Take your time but agree to forgive and forget over time.
How To Choose Your Life Partner
In the first place I want you to realize that marriage is a gift from
God almighty. Again it is meant for the matured only. When I mean the
matured am not talking only about age, but maturity of the mind. When
you feel you are ready for marriage the next question is how do I choose
the right partner that will really be a blessing to me? Here in this
article am going to help you on key principles that will help you
discover you dream partner.
1. Pray to God to guild you in choosing the right person. Many will disagree with me on this. But the truth remains that God who knows each and everyone of us knows who will actually be a suitable partner to you. If you tell him to guide you, of course He will. He said in all our ways we should acknowledge Him and He will direct our steps.
2. Write on A paper the kind of person You want to marry. This will help you both in your prayers and in your relationship. When you are looking for a life partner you have to be open or receptive to everyone that comes your way. I mean those who want to be your friends. There is nothing wrong having many friends when you are out to select the right person.This is where your list plays a major role. Among those who are your friends, go through your list to know those who match the qualities of the kind of person you want as a life partner. Select the nearest to the quality. Because you may not get 100% of the person on your list, the man or woman that is 75% should be selected. Remember prayer still has to be going on during the selection so that you don't make mistake.
3. Make your proposal. Of course this is the duty of a man. But if you are a woman yet there other ways to make him know you are interested without being stupid. You can be interested in things he is interested about. Make some good compliments to his shirts, tie or job, anything to get his attention to you. Caution! please don't seduce him. Don't try to get him sleep with you. Be disciplined as a woman of great quality. still prayer is very important here too, for God to open his eyes to see you.
4. Accept each other. Once both of you discovered you are for each other the next thing is to accept to get married. You as the man should start planning to see her people. Once you see her people begin the marriage plans. Fix a date for the marriage rites according to the customs of her people. Pay the dowry, and she becomes your life. 5. Live Happily With Your Spouse. After you have married you have to live happily with your spouse. Marriage is meant for enjoyment not for struggle and fighting. With these principles you can find a partner that suites you.
1. Pray to God to guild you in choosing the right person. Many will disagree with me on this. But the truth remains that God who knows each and everyone of us knows who will actually be a suitable partner to you. If you tell him to guide you, of course He will. He said in all our ways we should acknowledge Him and He will direct our steps.
2. Write on A paper the kind of person You want to marry. This will help you both in your prayers and in your relationship. When you are looking for a life partner you have to be open or receptive to everyone that comes your way. I mean those who want to be your friends. There is nothing wrong having many friends when you are out to select the right person.This is where your list plays a major role. Among those who are your friends, go through your list to know those who match the qualities of the kind of person you want as a life partner. Select the nearest to the quality. Because you may not get 100% of the person on your list, the man or woman that is 75% should be selected. Remember prayer still has to be going on during the selection so that you don't make mistake.
3. Make your proposal. Of course this is the duty of a man. But if you are a woman yet there other ways to make him know you are interested without being stupid. You can be interested in things he is interested about. Make some good compliments to his shirts, tie or job, anything to get his attention to you. Caution! please don't seduce him. Don't try to get him sleep with you. Be disciplined as a woman of great quality. still prayer is very important here too, for God to open his eyes to see you.
4. Accept each other. Once both of you discovered you are for each other the next thing is to accept to get married. You as the man should start planning to see her people. Once you see her people begin the marriage plans. Fix a date for the marriage rites according to the customs of her people. Pay the dowry, and she becomes your life. 5. Live Happily With Your Spouse. After you have married you have to live happily with your spouse. Marriage is meant for enjoyment not for struggle and fighting. With these principles you can find a partner that suites you.
Solving The Problem Of Infidelity In Marriage
What is infidelity? It is the ability of not been faithful to your
spouse. When a man goes outside his matrimonial home to have affair with
another woman he is unfaithful, likewise a woman. Many marriages an at
the verge of collapse because of the evil called infidelity. Now if we
don't take proper measure to stop infidelity marriage that supposed to
be a blessing will end up becoming a curse.
How are we going to solve the problem of infidelity in marriage? The answer to this question will be our focus in this article.
1. Purity of Heart. The first thing that will help solve the problem of infidelity in marriage is the purity of heart. A pure heart will not always think of making love with another woman or a man. Renew your thought by thinking right. Think about the love you have with your spouse, the shame and trauma that your act will cause in your marriage.
2. Avoid Close Contact With The Woman or Man. A man said that the closer you are with a woman or a man the weaker you become. There are many ways you can be close to a man that if care is not taken, will lead to infidelity. One of it is physical contact- seeing each other all the time. Am not saying you should live an isolated life. Of course it impossible to live here on earth without socializing, but the point am making is that if you want to save your marriage, mind the closeness with another partner. Another way to be close which is the most dangerous of all is closeness through phone or internet. Today technology has made it easy to be in deep relationship with a strange woman or man to the detriment of our marriages. For example, a man engaged in many hours conversation with a woman who is not his wife discussing love issues. Others engage in chatting. Some women keep awake chatting with men. And it's not that they are discussing about things that can lift up the spirit.They talk about sex. Some even take pictures of their nude bodies and send to their partners. Tell me why won't you be unfaithful doing so? So be careful in any conversation with opposite sex. for those who are out to seduce you deliberately avoid their calls or chat.
3. Cherish Your Partner. Cherish you partner. If actually he is your wife/husband love and cherish each other. Spend quality time together. Don't allow communication gap in your relationship because that is where the enemy will come in. If your partner does what you don't like, call him/her to order. Talk about it and find lasting solution to the problem. Try to satisfy your eyes and mind in the beauty of your partner. How do I mean. The way you admire other women or men admire your spouse. That can only be possible when both of you are together. kissing and romancing each other.
4. Tell each other Your areas of Temptation. let me tell you my story. last year my wife traveled and I was alone. And being an online man, I was chatting with some my facebook friends. So a woman opened up a chat, and began taking about sex. That she would want me to satisfy her sexually. I pretended as if I was interested to get to know what she was up to. When I realized she meant it I had to tell her that I wouldn't do such a thing like that.When my wife came back I told her everything that went when she was away. With that I have saved myself further temptation.
5. Pray For The Help Of God To be faithful. Prayer remains the only secret that helps us over come temptation. For no man or woman is above falling. In fact the higher you grow spiritually the greater the temptation. So watch and pray so that you don't fall into temptation. To do that create time either in the morning or night to call upon God for help.
6. Avoid Blame When Your Partner falls away. When by mistake your spouse falls into the sin of adultery, what should be your action? Throw her away, leave the house for him and walk away? No, doing so will never end infidelity, but will rather aggravate it. What I want you to do is, try to put aside blames and criticism, and put on the garment of love and tolerance. Knowing that we stand only by the grace of God, forgiveness is the only option in a time like this. Infidelity can be overcome if only you will apply these principles.
How are we going to solve the problem of infidelity in marriage? The answer to this question will be our focus in this article.
1. Purity of Heart. The first thing that will help solve the problem of infidelity in marriage is the purity of heart. A pure heart will not always think of making love with another woman or a man. Renew your thought by thinking right. Think about the love you have with your spouse, the shame and trauma that your act will cause in your marriage.
2. Avoid Close Contact With The Woman or Man. A man said that the closer you are with a woman or a man the weaker you become. There are many ways you can be close to a man that if care is not taken, will lead to infidelity. One of it is physical contact- seeing each other all the time. Am not saying you should live an isolated life. Of course it impossible to live here on earth without socializing, but the point am making is that if you want to save your marriage, mind the closeness with another partner. Another way to be close which is the most dangerous of all is closeness through phone or internet. Today technology has made it easy to be in deep relationship with a strange woman or man to the detriment of our marriages. For example, a man engaged in many hours conversation with a woman who is not his wife discussing love issues. Others engage in chatting. Some women keep awake chatting with men. And it's not that they are discussing about things that can lift up the spirit.They talk about sex. Some even take pictures of their nude bodies and send to their partners. Tell me why won't you be unfaithful doing so? So be careful in any conversation with opposite sex. for those who are out to seduce you deliberately avoid their calls or chat.
3. Cherish Your Partner. Cherish you partner. If actually he is your wife/husband love and cherish each other. Spend quality time together. Don't allow communication gap in your relationship because that is where the enemy will come in. If your partner does what you don't like, call him/her to order. Talk about it and find lasting solution to the problem. Try to satisfy your eyes and mind in the beauty of your partner. How do I mean. The way you admire other women or men admire your spouse. That can only be possible when both of you are together. kissing and romancing each other.
4. Tell each other Your areas of Temptation. let me tell you my story. last year my wife traveled and I was alone. And being an online man, I was chatting with some my facebook friends. So a woman opened up a chat, and began taking about sex. That she would want me to satisfy her sexually. I pretended as if I was interested to get to know what she was up to. When I realized she meant it I had to tell her that I wouldn't do such a thing like that.When my wife came back I told her everything that went when she was away. With that I have saved myself further temptation.
5. Pray For The Help Of God To be faithful. Prayer remains the only secret that helps us over come temptation. For no man or woman is above falling. In fact the higher you grow spiritually the greater the temptation. So watch and pray so that you don't fall into temptation. To do that create time either in the morning or night to call upon God for help.
6. Avoid Blame When Your Partner falls away. When by mistake your spouse falls into the sin of adultery, what should be your action? Throw her away, leave the house for him and walk away? No, doing so will never end infidelity, but will rather aggravate it. What I want you to do is, try to put aside blames and criticism, and put on the garment of love and tolerance. Knowing that we stand only by the grace of God, forgiveness is the only option in a time like this. Infidelity can be overcome if only you will apply these principles.
Four Things That Will Make Your Marriage Work
Mutual respect
As unromantic as it sounds, having mutual respect for each other will be a huge benefit to your relationship. This means never taking each other for granted or simply expecting certain things of each other without asking or having a discussion around roles. For example, how would you feel if your husband automatically expected you to know where his clean shirts were or assumed that all of the household chores were your domain and your domain only? A good relationship relies on teamwork and sharing responsibilities equally – not leaving one person in charge of everything. Having mutual respect means appreciating each other and showing that appreciation by saying thank you when your partner does something nice for you.Acceptance
There are no two ways about it; you must accept the man you have married. There is slim to no chance that once you have him settled into a home with a garden and white picket fence that he will transform magically into the prince you've always wanted. A frog is a frog no matter how you dress him up, so if you want your marriage to work, acceptance is key. If you married him, you need to love him for who he is now – not who you hope he will become. Marry for love and nothing more or you run the risk of disappointment down the road, not to mention unnecessary arguments and potential heartache.Common courtesy
It may seem overly simplistic but remembering to extend small common courtesies to your spouse such as saying please and thank you, calling or sending a text message when you're going to be late, offering to make dinner when the other person is super-stressed, etc. will go a long way in making your marriage work. No one likes to feel under appreciated (or worse, not appreciated at all), so if you both make a point to show appreciation towards each other, it will be much easier to keep your relationship healthy and minimize potential resentment. Resentment often starts when one person feels they pull more weight than the other or that what they do goes unnoticed. Be nicer to each other to avoid this trap.Compromise
This is probably the most important healthy marriage must-do on our list and something that should be taken very seriously. We all want to be right (it just feels good sometimes), but always needing to have the last word and turn every argument into a full-blown fight can really wear on the relationship. Compromise means coming to a mutually agreeable solution – something you can both live with. You may still think you're right and he's wrong, but it can often be better to try and merge your ideas until you hit on something that satisfies both of you, rather than one of you feeling slighted or angry.
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