The only time you need to show love to your spouse is during
sickness. The possibility for your relationship to change with an
illness is there. To some couples, during illness Is the time to stay
late at night, to only come back when the sick one has almost being
exhausted, fainted, because of hunger. But sure I got a lot of
information for you, on what to do to keep the love flowing.
Have a Positive Attitude About The Sickness
See
in your mind's eye someone telling you that your spouse has 90 percent
chance of getting better. Does that sound good? Of course it does. It's
always worthwhile to think positively. In fact, experts in psychology
say that ‘a positive attitude enhances your immune system and will
actually increase your chances of a full recovery’
so when you
have positive mindset, toward your sick spouse it will create positive
reaction. your sick spouse will have faith that soon the sickness will
be over.
The time of illness is the time two of you have to keep the channels of communication open more than ever. Remember to do the following:
Let you partner know you want to be alone. Discuss this to your spouse kindly. The reason for this information is to avoid disturbance when you want to be alone.
Try your best to always give each other your full attention. A sick person needs attention more than anything, so provide time for that.
If
you are feeling scared and fearful as a result of your spouse’s
condition, share it with your spouse. As much as you might want to push
him or her away, try as hard as you can to draw him or her closer to
you.
Give your spouse the chance to support you. Don’t see it that his/her presence is a disturbance. Physical contact is healing and creates closeness. Hug each other often.
Love your spouse.
During this critical time, you need to show love to your spouse; the
reason is that it makes the relationship strong. Instead of trying to
regret or complain, why not say “I love you”
Have fun Together.
Since
you might not be able to go to a movie or out to dinner or to some
important places of fun, yet you can still have fun together by setting
out time to be alone at home without any interruptions. There are many
things that you can do to have fun, even if you don't have much energy. Here are some things to try:
Tell story that will build hope. The best is bible stories that talk about those that put their face in God and how they received their healing.
Draw some colorful pictures together.
Watch an interesting movie together
Read a book to each other.
By
the time you follow these principles, your sick spouse will not only
appreciate you, but will be relieved of some unwanted tension whether
you will abandon the house and run away.
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