Temperaments And Marriage - Choleric Wife

knowing the character of your spouse helps a lot. It brings understanding in the family.In this article you are going to learn how to understand your Choleric wife.

 

I. The Strengths of A Choleric Wife.

 

1. A Choleric wife is bossy, overly aggressive and domineering. She is often considered a threat by other men and resented and judged by other women who tend to want to cut her down to size.

 

2.She is very energetic and outgoing and always up to something new.

 

3.Courageous –she believes she can do whatever she sets her mind to do. No matter the obstacles, she will hold firmly to her belief that she can do it.

 

4.Determined -she views life as series of problems to solve or challenges to overcome. To her ,problems are means of motivation than discouragement.

 

5.Crusade – she notices wrongs and injustices of life and feels compelled to set things right. She is the one who crusades for change.

 

6.Open and honest - You don’t have to wonder what she is thinking or feeling because she will let you know right up front whether you want to know or not. Often she has an excellent insight that is ignored because someone doesn’t like the way it was presented.

 

7.Effective disciplinarian - She spells out exactly what she expects and carries herself with an air of confident authority that children respect. Her children are usually exceptionally well- behaved. If she is a christian, she will be used powerfully by God as a good leader.

 

8.She is a forceful woman with many goals in mind. She may help with the finances of the home.

 

II. Weakness of A Choleric Wife.

 

1. She gets angry quickly - she can be mean to her husband, children and even total strangers. She may also use her mean streak to control her husband especially if she married a phlegmatic man, which is often the case.

 

2.She will often control her family by fear and intimidation. She can be harsh and may

hurt  people’s feelings with tough language and hash unloving attitude.

 

3. Self-centered -She’s interested in just herself. She doesn’t have human sympathy.

 

4.Uses people -doesn’t take time to make friends. She is not interested in two-way give and

take relationship required to maintain a long-term friendship. She uses people to accomplish

her dreams.

5.Workaholic -she works beyond working hours. She has no time for rest. Every moment to her is for work. She resents lazy people.

 

Let God help you understand yourself, and to help you control your temperaments so that you will not destroy your marriage.