Monday, June 14, 2010

WHAT TO DO TO STOP CHEATING ON YOUR PARTNER

Have you ever cheated on your partner before? Most men and women cheat in their marriages. Cheating at your partner is a serious sin as long as marriage is concerned.

When you go outside your marriage and have sex with another person it is seen as cheating. You may not see it so but in the real sense it is called cheating.

Are your guilty of cheating on your partner,and you don't know how to put a stop to it? The following tips will be of good help.


Acknowledgement of your sin.

The first step is to own up to your fault of cheating your partner. What this means is that you must see the act as a sin. For that is the first step to healing your marriage. But if you don’t see any thing wrong with extramarital sex you will continue in it. And your marriage will continue to suffer. And it can lead to divorce.


Find a way to tell your partner your sin

Your sharing your sin of cheating with your partner proves that you are ready to change. If you can open up to your partner about your weakness it will create trust. Remember before you do that you must have decided not to go back to your old ways of moving with another woman or man.

Then if you have truly given up your old ways then telling your partner what you have been doing in the past will create trust that will keep your marriage moving.


Don’t Hide your feelings to your partner.

The last thing you have to do in order stop cheating on your partner is to be open to him or her. What do I mean? I mean be open to express your self. If your partner's behaviour is not pleasant to you don’t pretend that all is well. Find a good time to communicate your mind.For instance,
if your partner has been denying you of sex, which has contributed to your going outside. You better discuss it with him or her.
By so doing you will save your marriage from crashing and deliver self from going outside.