Temperament And marriage- Melancholic Wife

As a husband, if you want to enjoy your wife, please study the temperament of your wife.You  have been asking what and how should could be done.Keep on reading
I. THE STRENGTH OF A MELANCHOLIC WIFE

1. Good housekeeper. She doesn’t wait until she gets a visitor before she cleans her home
   1. She is well organized. Her organizational skill extends beyond her home. It extends to her office, business or church. She carries a daily planner and keeps records of things.
   2. Detail oriented. She usually reads instruction manuals before doing anything. That is why she hardly makes mistake in her application.
   3. She likes to do things the right way and places great emphasis on what worked in the past
      1. Frugal. She is always a wise spender. It doesn’t matter how much money she has, she wants to    spend it wisely
      2. Careful Decision-maker. She is very cautious when making decisions and may be considered slow by others
      3. She is very intelligent, loyal and dedicated in any assignment given to her because she hates criticisms
      4. H.    She does not have many friends. But the few ones she has can count on her for being there for them all the time

1. II.  THE WEAKNESSES OF A MELANCHOLIC WIFE
   1. Unpopular. The melancholic is very quiet, thoughtful and unsocial. In reality she is timid and shy
   2. She is cautious in making friends because she has been hurt by disappointing friendship in the past and wants to guard her heart
   3. Rigid. She demands strict adherence to her many rules and principles. For her there is usually one way of doing things right – her ways
   4. She is prone to self pity and depression. She can descend into depression and lack of interest in life due to a slight rejection
   5. She finds it difficult to accept her husband as he is. She demands major changes to his life and activities. She finds it difficult to allow God change him in His time.
   6. Fault finder. She finds fault almost in everything her husband or people do because of her perfectionism
   7. She doesn’t take action easily because of her logical personality. This character makes her keep procrastinating. Her fears is that she might not do the job very well

   As a melancholic wife, you need the spirit of God to help you in the area of depression, perfectionism, fault finding etc. If these areas are taken care of, you will be an ideal wife and a great instrument in the hand of God