How To Choose Your Life Partner

In the first place I want you to realize that marriage is a gift from God almighty. Again it is meant for the matured only. When I mean the matured am not talking only about age, but maturity of the mind. When you feel you are ready for marriage the next question is how do I choose the right partner that will really be a blessing to me? Here in this article am going to help you on key principles that will help you discover you dream partner.
1. Pray to God to guild you in choosing the right person. Many will disagree with me on this. But the truth remains that God who knows each and everyone of us knows who will actually be a suitable partner to you. If you tell him to guide you, of course He will. He said in all our ways we should acknowledge Him and He will direct our steps.
2. Write on A paper the kind of person You want to marry. This will help you both in your prayers and  in your relationship. When you are looking for a life partner you have to be open or receptive to everyone that comes your way. I mean those who want to be your friends. There is nothing wrong having many friends when you are out to select the right person.This is where your list plays a major role. Among those who are your friends, go through your list to know those who match the qualities of the kind of person you want as a life partner. Select the nearest to the  quality. Because you may not get 100% of the person on your list,  the man or woman that is 75% should be selected. Remember prayer still has to be going on during the selection so that you don't make mistake.
3. Make your proposal. Of course this is the duty of a man. But if you are a woman yet there other ways to make him know you are interested without  being stupid. You can be interested in things he is interested about. Make some good compliments to his shirts, tie or job, anything to get his attention to you. Caution! please don't seduce him. Don't try to get him sleep with you. Be disciplined as a woman of great quality. still prayer is very important here too, for God to open his eyes to see you.
4. Accept each other. Once both of you discovered you are for each other the next thing is to accept to get married. You as the man should start planning to see her people. Once you see her people begin the marriage plans. Fix a date for the marriage rites according to the customs of her people. Pay the dowry, and she becomes your life. 5. Live Happily With Your Spouse. After you have married you have to live happily with your spouse. Marriage is meant for enjoyment not for struggle and fighting. With these principles you can find a partner that suites you.